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kiddy

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posted March 10, 2002 04:24

got drunk
met a girl
went back to her house
did the nasty
and now ive left my necklace(chain) at her house
so now ive gotta see her again, shes keen to go for coffee,but im leaving to go overseas in 3 weeks and so im not looking for any kind of relationship
but shes got the chain and shes a nice person and i dont wanna offend her
its a pretty fucked situation
especially when you take into account the fact that im a mumbling nervous mess
what to do?

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w3rd souljah

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posted March 10, 2002 11:52

You disgust everyone.

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kiddy

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posted March 10, 2002 17:31

quote:
Originally posted by w3rd souljah:
You disgust everyone.

thanks bud
coming from you that must be a compliment
havent you ever had a 1 night stand before?

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Foo

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posted March 10, 2002 18:30

you're in a tough situation. i say you go to cofee with her or whatever. its only fair. just go see her shoot the shit and be nice. most likely she'll bring you the necklace if she wants to see you. and if not when you are about to leave ask her about it. you dont hafta be a jerk. it can just be a way of making it so you can see eachother again. if she asks about a relationship just tell her about your situation and she should respect your decision

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PunkMunkey

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posted March 10, 2002 19:57

Here's an idea fuckwit...go see her, get your fucking necklace, tell her the fucking situation and take it like a man...

Christ...own up and take some responsibility for your actions...if you think you're man enough to fuck then you should be man enough to take responsibility for any "unpleasant" side effects that come from it...

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***norm

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posted March 10, 2002 20:55

I say this...

If she is a cool chick, go see her. There really is a shortage of cool chicks in the world, knowing a few of them is a wonderful thing.

If not, TAKE IT AS A LOSS. Even the best of us have forgotten things or lost them to ex's...
Nost notably, my Replacements catalog, my Heathers VHS tape, three watches, more t-shirts than I can count and a black left foot low top chuck taylor.

It happens...

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w3rd souljah

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posted March 10, 2002 21:08

quote:
Originally posted by PunkMunkey:
Here's an idea fuckwit...go see her, get your fucking necklace, tell her the fucking situation and take it like a man...
Christ...own up and take some responsibility for your actions...if you think you're man enough to fuck then you should be man enough to take responsibility for any "unpleasant" side effects that come from it...

Sometimes I wish he were my dad. What a guy!

[I agree with him.]

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tiddlywynk

Member # 22

posted March 10, 2002 21:14

quote:
Originally posted by PunkMunkey:
Here's an idea fuckwit...go see her, get your fucking necklace, tell her the fucking situation and take it like a man...
Christ...own up and take some responsibility for your actions...if you think you're man enough to fuck then you should be man enough to take responsibility for any "unpleasant" side effects that come from it...

i love you rj

personally, i don't think this is that bad of a situation... get your necklace, tell her you really like her but you're leaving so you don't want to get involved, compliment the shit out of her... make her feel good! and then you're off.

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Christy

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posted March 11, 2002 00:27

quote:
Originally posted by tiddlywynk:
personally, i don't think this is that bad of a situation... get your necklace, tell her you really like her but you're leaving so you don't want to get involved, compliment the shit out of her... make her feel good! and then you're off.

Are you an idiot? What about the girl's feelings? If you compliment the hell out of her and tell her she will like you.. She'd LIKE HIM and think about wanting to be with him when this idiot goes overseas. THINK ABOUT HER FEELINGS.

Ok. I am done being angry. That just annoyed the hell out of me. People who don't take responsibility for their actions bother me A LOT.

And its just a stupid necklace. Gagh!

--Christy

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kiddy

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posted March 11, 2002 03:25

see thats the thing
i dont wanna hurt her feelings shes a nice girl
but i cant get attached
thats all
i was pissed ,i rooted her ........it happens
fuck !
and rj youre do damn right mate when i grow up i wanna be just like you
and as for the necklace its this silver chain thingy and its has a little bike on it and it means alot to me

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kiddy

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posted March 11, 2002 03:34

quote:
Originally posted by PunkMunkey:
Here's an idea fuckwit..

hey i thought fuckwhit was an aussie word.......i guess you learn something new everyday

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tiddlywynk

Member # 22

posted March 11, 2002 06:51

quote:
Originally posted by Christy:
Are you an idiot? What about the girl's feelings? If you compliment the hell out of her and tell her she will like you.. She'd LIKE HIM and think about wanting to be with him when this idiot goes overseas. THINK ABOUT HER FEELINGS.

yeah, she'll like him. and she'll think that she could have him EXCEPT that he's overseas. if he never is going to see her again, what's the point of telling her he isn't interested and hurting her feelings?

and no, i'm not an idiot, actually.

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Christy

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posted March 11, 2002 09:09

But what's the point of giving her false hopes? Seriously. It's annoying how people aren't honest with each other. And I never believe in that "I'll never see him again" kind of crap. Weird shit happens and you end up seeing people again. I'm seeing people here that I haven't seen since KINDERGARTEN.

If you told her that you liked her.. She would probably still continuing liking him REGARDLESS if kiddy overseas or not. What if she decides to get his contacts and continue to talk to him? It's always best to tell the truth, even if you are in deep shit. You just tell it in a manner that's nice and not as harsh. NO FUCKING LIES. They only make things worse. But this, of course, is all based on an assumption that she likes him. Who knows. She might have been repulsed and doesn't really like kiddy. Eh. Whatever. I'm done thinking about this.

--Christy

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Colonel Klink

Member # 78

posted March 11, 2002 11:48

I've got breaking news !!! I've got news !

I've seen the necklace on ebay yesterday !

here it is

[ March 11, 2002: Message edited by: Colonel Klink ]

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Colonel Klink

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posted March 11, 2002 11:52

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kiddy

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posted March 11, 2002 17:32

nice hey ?

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Just Kenny

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posted March 11, 2002 22:31

just tell the truth. you are LEAVING, so no getting attached, dont wanna get hurt, dont wanna hurt her. the end. you might get another fuck out of it. i see only thumbs ups here. win-win!

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k r i s t i n

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posted March 12, 2002 21:05

quote:
Originally posted by w3rd souljah:
You disgust everyone.

but he's better than that sick of "slutes" guy, right?

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El Guapo Vandal

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posted March 12, 2002 21:25

if it hasnt been suggested, do her again, and do a bunch of girls overseas, and come back and if shes still avaliable, do her then too.

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kiddy

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posted March 13, 2002 00:56

well i said i would maybe meet her for coffee today but it rained in the morning so i had to train in the arvo and couldnt make it
2moro im busy ,same for friday
so i might meet her in town sat night(town=pubs and niteclubs) so maybe i can drink a little bit of alcohol before so im not so nervous ,yes its immature yes its the easy way out ,but i cant help it im a fuckin wimp the thought of meeting a girl for coffee scares the absolute bejesus out of me i just end up mumbling and talking absolute crap
so yeah im an idiot like you didnt know that

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Jenny

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posted March 13, 2002 12:18

quote:
Originally posted by kiddy:
so maybe i can drink a little bit of alcohol before so im not so nervous

isn't that how you got into this situation in the first place?
oh and norm, only a left low top? what happened to the right, is it on ebay too?

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***norm

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posted March 13, 2002 12:28

In my haste to exit an apartment of a young female, I grabbed for my shoes. I thought I had both, but alas I did not. SO the right shoe came home with me, the left remained behind. I certainly could have gone and gotten it. Instead, I chose to never have any sort of social contact with the girl again. And the shoe was forever lost. Was I immature, sure. Do I regret it, nope...

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kiddy

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posted March 13, 2002 19:57

quote:
Originally posted by Jenny:
isn't that how you got into this situation in the first place?
oh and norm, only a left low top? what happened to the right, is it on ebay too?

im gonna have a little bit of alcohol the night we shagged id had heaps not sure exactly how much
but at one stage i couldnt sit on a chair so it was a fair bit

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kiddy

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posted March 13, 2002 19:59

fuck editing it
just pretend i used punctuation
i feel lazy today

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SickOfSlutes

Member # 106

posted March 14, 2002 07:05

quote:
Originally posted by k r i s t i n:
but he's better than that sick of "slutes" guy, right?

AGAIN! I want to know what the fuck I ever did to you!?! Jeezuz...

I honestly don't think it's that bad of a situation. She's responsible too, it takes two for that type of thing to happen.

But whatever, yea, just go over and get the necklace. If she brings anything up then just say how yer leaving to go over seas. It's an honest excuse.

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k r i s t i n

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posted March 14, 2002 21:01

quote:
Originally posted by SickOfSlutes:

Jeezuz...

what?

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SickOfSlutes

Member # 106

posted March 15, 2002 07:54

Sound it out

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k r i s t i n

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posted March 15, 2002 13:08

yes, but it's spelled wrong. and should i say it as jesus or jesus? cause you know, jesus is my gardner.

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nose over tail

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posted March 15, 2002 14:35

quote:
Originally posted by k r i s t i n:
jesus is my gardner.

wow... i didn't know conor oberst had a son.

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k r i s t i n

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posted March 15, 2002 18:09

haha...what?!

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nose over tail

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posted March 16, 2002 09:59

it's kind of an inside joke between me and my... cult. i wrote "conor oberst is god" on my shoes and now instead of saying "oh god," i say "oh conor." and if someone mentions jesus, i say "nah, conor doesn't have a son."

except that we've claimed tim kasher as the unofficial jesus.

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w3rd souljah

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posted March 16, 2002 11:26

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k r i s t i n

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posted March 16, 2002 12:49

quote:
Originally posted by nose over tail:
it's kind of an inside joke between me and my... cult. i wrote "conor oberst is god" on my shoes and now instead of saying "oh god," i say "oh conor." and if someone mentions jesus, i say "nah, conor doesn't have a son."
except that we've claimed tim kasher as the unofficial jesus.

conor is not god.

[ March 16, 2002: Message edited by: k r i s t i n ]

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nose over tail

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posted March 16, 2002 15:18

quote:
Originally posted by k r i s t i n:
conor is not god.

i beg to differ.

by the way, that picture rocks.

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kiddy

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posted March 21, 2002 00:53

well i got my chain back
my little bro rang her up and said i would be in town cos we were all drunk
so then i went back to her house kissed her with garlic breath (damn italian)and was about to get stuck into it when my mates rang and i had to go
so yeah im happy and i might even see her saturday night she wasnt as bad as i remembered

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