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k r i s t i n
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posted March 25, 2003 21:16
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Originally posted by ***norm:
Next, you have to accept people for who they are, not for who you want them to be. Nobody is perfect, and the sooner you realize people are occasionally going to let you down, and ACCEPT THAT, the better off you will be.
Finally, you must exercise forgiveness. In all situations and under all circumstances. Do all of that and you won't hate anyone...
hmm i accept people for who they are, i know no ones perfect, i know people are going to let me down, i do excercise forgiveness... but i have a limit. to let people fuck you over again and again and keep forgiving them is fucking STUPID! i have let people constantly fuck me over again and again, i give people tons of chances (i know people that give friends ONE chance), infact i always discuss with people how everyone deserves a lot of chances. but when you keep fucking things up for someone you can't expect them to always forgive you.
a friend of mine, he is very, very funny and a very nice guy. but one weekend he fucked up things for me and ever since fucks things up for me almost all the time. but i don't stop hanging out with him. i deal with him PUKING ON MY CAR, annoying me, tracking mud into my car, trying to get me to buy him things like food when he has no money, spilling a gallon of water in the back of my car, falling down in my room and breaking my shelves off of my wall while a million things on the shelf including my computer fall down. i constantly tell him he needs to stop, blah blah... he is subconsiously inconsiderate but i deal with it. and i've told him before that i only bitch at him because i don't want things to get too fucked up, because want him to know what he does that pisses me off so he wont do it (these are things he can stop, like blowing smoke in my face).
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***norm
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posted March 26, 2003 06:54
Kristin, you have got to mellow out a bit. Everything is not a personal attack. Everything I wrote is a BLUEPRINT, not some sort of directive to you. Damn. And, if you claim to be so goddamn nice and understanding, explain to me why you would be so fucking petty. The guy puked on your car? Man, that $1.50 at the quarter car wash really breaks the bank. Or the "gallon" of water... Lots of work for you to ensure that the evaporation thing happens. Oh yeah, and mud. COME ON. It's a car. That is not in any way fucking you over. Getting fucked over by your friends involves personal grief and anguish. Someone raping my mom is a big deal, and may be tough to forgive. Someone tracking mud in my car is not a problem. Finally, you missed the first point I made, and after re-reading a bunch of your posts, it seems to be the most relevant. The world DOES NOT revolve around you. Everything is not judged by how it effects you, and people can feel free to treat you how they choose. The mark of your character is how you deal with it...You seem to have some sort of persecution problem. Say it with me now... The world is not out to get me, bad things happen to everyone. I actually have it pretty damn good.
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•* I understand war for some reasons. Land, money, a girl, that can be understood. Now war over god, that's a whole different issue. There is no way I can justify a war over who has a better invisible friend.
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sickb0y
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posted March 26, 2003 15:09
i was trying to remember your other name... kurtz... that's the one!oh. rape is a different kettle of fish all together. i'd be throwing hate left, right and centre at that person. they attacked someone i loved. not cool. but if they just put mud in my car (like my friends did once... meh - it cleaned out), then i don't hate them. i just go "grr dude! look!" and that's it. but yeah... i wonder how long i've been sickb0y. i think since at least umm... year 1999 i believe. wow. 4 years. cool.
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k r i s t i n
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posted March 26, 2003 17:08
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Originally posted by ***norm:
Kristin, you have got to mellow out a bit. Everything is not a personal attack. Everything I wrote is a BLUEPRINT, not some sort of directive to you. Damn. And, if you claim to be so goddamn nice and understanding, explain to me why you would be so fucking petty. The guy puked on your car? Man, that $1.50 at the quarter car wash really breaks the bank. Or the "gallon" of water... Lots of work for you to ensure that the evaporation thing happens. Oh yeah, and mud. COME ON. It's a car. That is not in any way fucking you over. Getting fucked over by your friends involves personal grief and anguish. Someone raping my mom is a big deal, and may be tough to forgive. Someone tracking mud in my car is not a problem. Finally, you missed the first point I made, and after re-reading a bunch of your posts, it seems to be the most relevant. The world DOES NOT revolve around you. Everything is not judged by how it effects you, and people can feel free to treat you how they choose. The mark of your character is how you deal with it...You seem to have some sort of persecution problem. Say it with me now... The world is not out to get me, bad things happen to everyone. I actually have it pretty damn good.
i was not treating everything like a personal attack, but now i think i will. as for my car, you have no idea about the situation with the puke or the mud in it... nor do you know anything about my car. SO FUCK OFF. and most everything i read was "blah blah blah" the end, fuck off.
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sickb0y
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posted March 26, 2003 17:21
*waves*  so anyways... here's some pictures to cheer us all up! 
yay for free picture hosting!! [ March 26, 2003: Message edited by: sickb0y ] [ March 26, 2003: Message edited by: sickb0y ]
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posted March 25, 2003 13:56
posted March 26, 2003 07:36
...oh, how I suffer for my friendships...woe...
