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Topic: How fucked up are you?
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Zach
Member # 47
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posted November 10, 2001 17:40
i think better would be to just answer each question, unless you don't want to, but i don't mind, so i will...What sex are you? Male Do you believe you have more difficulty with relationships than the average person your age? Yes
Do you have difficulty trusting people? No
Do you tend to avoid social relationships? Yes
Do you prefer to be alone rather than in the company of others? No
If you answered yes to the previous question, is it because you feel very anxious in social situations, or.. N/A
..because you are suspicious of their motives? N/A
Do you find yourself unaffected by praise or criticism? No
Do you see people who get taken advantage of as being weak and deserving of being used? No
Do you feel a yearning for acceptance among your peers? Yes
Do you have a difficult time relating to others? No
Do you believe you have special extrasensory abilities (ability to "sense" a person's presence, for example)? No
Do you often find that your emotions are inappropriate for a given situation? No
Are you plagued by suspicions that other people, including loved ones, may be doing things behind your back that will end up hurting you? No
Do others see you as being cold and distant? No
Do you tend to choose jobs that are below your skill level? No
Do you find it hard to concentrate on one thing for a long time? No
Is your appearance or behavior considered "eccentric" by other people? No
Have other people accused you of being cruel to animals or people? No
Do you take actions without thinking about the consequences? No
Do you sometimes profit at the expense of others, without being bothered by the pain or damage you may cause them? No
Do you consider your needs to be more important to you than the needs of others? Yes
Do your moods fluctuate a lot? Yes
Are you prone to bouts of anger? No
Do you often feel like people are saying negative things about you behind your back? Yes
Do you often see things in black and white terms? In other words, something either is or it isn't, with no gray area inbetween. No
Are you often uninterested in the feelings of others? No
When you are talking to someone, do they sometimes have difficulty following your train of thought? Yes
Are you quick to anger when your expectations are not met? No
Do you intentionally injure yourself, for instance by cutting yourself or taking too many pills? No
Do consider yourself having a strong love for approval and praise?Yes
Do other people accuse you of being manipulative? No
Have you had recurrent thoughts of suicide? No
If you answered yes to the previous question, do you tend to have these suicidal thoughts during and after a break-up with someone? N/A
Do you tend to be critical of loved ones, sometimes holding them to higher standards than you hold yourself to? No
Are you very afraid of being alone? No
Are you focused on order and perfection? No
Do you feel that you are depressed a lot? Yes
Do you always feel the need to have a story to tell? No
Have you ever been in jail or done something that you could be put in jail for? No
Do other people accuse you of being self-centered? No
Do you occasionally or often dress or act provocatively to gain attention? No
Do you have a big fear of rejection (of any kind, not just romantic)? Yes
Do you often second-guess yourself? Yes
Do you find yourself exaggerating your achievements to win the respect of others? No
Do you frequently alternate between feelings of high self-worth and self-disappointment? No
Do you tend to lie a lot? No
Do you frequently reassure yourself that you are deserving of praise? No
Do you frequently reassure yourself that you are self-sufficient? No
Do you often feel uncomfortable in social situations? No
Does your concern for doing everything "right" interfere with your productivity? No
Do you have trouble not taking criticism personally? Yes
Do you feel the need to always be in a relationship? Yes
Are you quiet in social situations, often out of fear of saying something stupid? No
Are you often critical of weakness in others, particularly classmates or coworkers? No
Do you exaggerate the potential difficulties of new situations in order to convince yourself not to try out new activities? Yes
Do you yearn for intimate relationships yet feel that you are too socially inept to obtain them? No
Do you ever steal things from stores or people's houses? No
Do you suffer from low confidence? No
Have you ever exaggerated illness or other weakness in order to get attention? No
Do you have an intense fear of separation from those you love? No
Have others accused you of being arrogant? No
Do you avoid working in teams because you are convinced that others are too careless and will not work to your standards? No
Do you often let others make important decisions for you? No
Do you have intense feelings of inadequacy and helplessness? No
Do you often get stuck on the details while missing the larger picture? No
Are you very concerned with your appearance and how others perceive you? Yes
Do others accuse you of being rigid or stubborn? No
Do you have a hard time throwing things away, even if they are old and worn out? No
Do you engage in any obsessive or compulsive behavior? Yes
Were your parents cold and distant or treated you negatively when you were growing up? No
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When you close your eyes are you satisfied?
When this is all over there will be nothing left.
Posts: 95 | From: Redondo Beach, CA | Registered: Oct 2001
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posted November 10, 2001 06:06
